Two People to Make Proud

I recently stumbled upon a quote that lives rent-free in my head: "There are only two people you should strive to make proud: 10-year-old you and 80-year-old you." Let that sink in. See, it messes with your head!

When I read the quote, I didn't see any other context. It was thrown at me completely unfiltered and without additional structure. Here's how I interpret it:

• To make 10-year-old you proud, go for it. Don't lose that childlike wonder, curiosity, and dreams. When we're finally of age to actually do something about it, do something about it!

• To make 80-year-old you proud, don't leave regrets on the table. None of us will sit there at 80 years old thinking about how we should have played it safer, taken fewer risks, or pursued more comfort. Don't let yourself sit in regret when you're old, wrinkly, and grey.

Is this true? I wonder. I've been thinking about this a lot. After all, this totally seems like something I would think. Do I agree? After much contemplation, I couldn't agree more.

Here's where the rubber meets the road. Assess your life. Take stock of your journey. What would 10-year-old and 80-year-old you think of the journey you've lived so far? Would they be proud? Would they be disappointed? Don't answer me, answer the person in the mirror.

I still need to think about my answer, but today, I encourage you to think about yours. Have a great day; for current you, 10-year-old you, and 80-year-old you.

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