Back Against The Wall
Over the last week, I've encountered several challenges in my client work where it felt like my back was against the wall. The issue was unique, material, and complex. It also required me to figure it out.....with no Plan B available. These were true back-against-the-wall, "or else" moments. To be honest, sometimes it feels like it would be easier to just throw my hands in the air and admit defeat. However, something interesting happens when our backs are against the proverbial wall: We figure it out. Somehow, some way, we work through it. I hate to admit it, but if my back wasn't against the wall, I'm not sure I would have found the way. But once I do figure it out, I will forever possess that skill for later use. Over and over and over I encounter these types of scenarios in my work.
Last night, as I was reflecting on the onslaught of back-against-the-wall challenges I've recently tackled, I thought back to when Sarah and I first got married. I had just been involuntarily relocated to a different state, and we had $236,000 of debt. The easiest path would have been to give up and succumb to the terrors in front of us. However, since our backs were against the wall and it felt like a red-alert-lockdown-type of moment, we were forced to figure it out. 4.5 years later, we were debt-free. As much as I would love to take credit for being so wise (though I clearly wasn't, as evidenced by the $236,000 of debt), it was the back-against-the-wall nature of our situation that forced us to figure it out.
No, I'm not a big fan of having my back against the wall. It sucks. It sucks on a macro level, and it sucks on a micro level. However, there's no better way to figure something out than to have no other options. While I don't wish your back to be against the wall, if you ever find yourself in that situation (or are there today!), I encourage you to use it! Use that pressure to fuel you into a better reality. Use it to aid you in your "figuring it out" stage. It's often a messy process, but it will be worth it. Also, as an added bonus, once you have figured it out, you'll possess that skill for the rest of your life! That's pretty dang cool.
Now, if you'll excuse me, I have some more back-against-the-wall client challenges facing me today. Wish me luck, and good luck to you as well.
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