It Cuts Both Ways
Whenever we think about budgeting, we tend to view it through the lens of "spend less." Sure, sometimes that can be true, but that's not the true intent of budgeting. At its best, budgeting is far less about spending less and more about spending better. It's creating a plan, executing said plan, and tracking how we did with said plan.
However, it always seems to come back to the idea that spending less is a win and spending more is a fail. I couldn't disagree more with this sentiment. If a client comes in $1,000 under budget, I tell them they failed. Why? Because they didn't honor their plan. If the plan is to spend $x, they need to spend $x. Therefore, my gauge of how successful someone is with their budget is how close they came to zero. I'd rather someone overspend on their budget by $200 than underspend by $1,000. It's like darts: the closest to the center wins.
Here's how it looks in my household. Last weekend, Sarah asked if we should go out to eat. "Let's look at the budget and find out," I replied. It turns out, for whatever reason, we still had $125 left in our dining out budget for the month. "Let's go out to eat tonight AND tomorrow!" That was great news for us, and the boys were doubly excited.
This is what it looks like to honor a budget. It's not about spending less; it's about spending better. If we negotiate that we are going to spend a certain amount on dining out, then we owe it to ourselves to make good on that promise. We can't blow past that amount, but we also can't fall way short of that amount, either.
It cuts both ways! Think about this idea next month as you create your monthly budget and attempt to execute the plan. Please don't look at your budget as some legalistic, fun-stealing rain cloud that hovers over your life, telling you "no." Instead, use it as the mechanism to bring your goals, aspirations, and motives to life......then live accordingly.
I promise you, if you commit to viewing your money through this it-cuts-both-ways lens, it will change your relationship with personal finance forever.
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