Sometimes, You Get Both
I often beat the drum of pursuing meaning over money. I'm a broken record. It's a hill I'll die on. I have a podcast called Meaning of Money, for crying out loud. This idea is woven into my core, and I want to dedicate my life to helping others see it and practice it.
Yesterday, I shared the story of a client who excitedly accepted a job because it provided his family with a huge income boost. This increase in monthly resources allowed this family to do a lot of good stuff, financially speaking. However, a deep regret set in just a few months later, realizing they had made a big mistake.
Let me be clear. This couple's mistake was not the fact they accepted a job that increased their family's income. The mistake was choosing money over meaning. When we prioritize money over meaning, we lose. Maybe not right away, but at some point.
Today, I want to clarify one important point. We don't have to choose between meaning and money; we just have to pursue meaning. Pursuing meaning does NOT mean we are opting for a life of financial struggle. In practice, the pursuit of meaning often provides both meaning AND money. Sometimes, you get both.
If we pursue money, we might just find it. I know countless people who have dedicated their lives to the pursuit of wealth. Many of them have found it. You know what else they found along the way? Loneliness, brokenness, misery, emptiness, and oftentimes, a life they merely tolerate. The resulting wealth provided by this lifestyle acts as a self-medicating relief, masking the pain with comfort.
On the flip side, if we pursue meaning, we WILL find it. Meaning comes in all shapes and sizes, and is as unique as each of us is. People who pursue meaning live with a different attitude and approach to life. There's something about them; you can see it in their eyes. In addition to finding meaning, these people also often find money. Why? When someone is pursuing a life full of purpose, meaning, and impact, pouring their blood, sweat, and tears into something, they can't help but have some level of financial success. This is the irony of pursuing meaning.
Sometimes, you get both. Life is a crazy adventure, opportunities abound. When we steadfastly endeavor to live a life rich in meaning, there's no telling what opportunities are around the next corner. Sometimes, you get both.
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