Enjoy the Suck
If all goes well, by year-end, one of my clients will have paid off approximately $50,000 of consumer debt in about 18 months. Two vehicles and a collection of student loans; normal stuff! They don't realize it yet, but their lives are about ready to shift into an exciting and unprecedented new realm. Nothing will ever be the same.
Whenever I bring up the idea of paying off debt to couples, most people say some variation of, "I don't want to throw away x years of my life." Translation: the only way to pay off debt is to not spend money on fun, and not spending money on fun is akin to wasting life and living in misery. Therefore, the juice isn't worth the squeeze. They would rather just enjoy life while they can, and kick the can down the road.
I've watched dozens (or hundreds) of families turn their backs on a significantly better life simply because they don't want to endure a season of sacrifice. The long-term implications of those decisions are catastrophic.
I have a little secret for you. Making sacrifices for a season to achieve a goal doesn't have to be a soul-sucking, fun-hating, misery-inducing journey. Sarah and I spent 4.5 years paying off $236,000 of crappy debt. It was the first 4.5 years of our marriage. And to be honest, the life we lived was pretty dang awesome. Did we make sacrifices? Oh yeah, brutal sacrifices. However, those sacrifices didn't define our quality of life or the meaning we experienced. Our standard of living sure suffered, but the quality of life was outstanding. We enjoyed the suck!
Today, when I look at young couples like my client mentioned above, I can't help but smile, knowing something they don't yet know. What lies on the other side of cleaning up this debt mess is a life they never knew existed. I can testify that this young couple hasn't stopped living life. In fact, I think they enjoy the suck, too! They have threaded the needle of making massive sacrifices while also enjoying their young marriage. In a few years, they will thank their former selves for paying the price for their freedom.
Enjoy the suck! Whatever sacrifice current you needs to make for future you to have a better life, do it! Don't wait. Life can be hard now or life can be hard later.......choose your hard. Sarah and I chose to enjoy the suck early. My young friends chose to enjoy the suck early. What will you choose? There's no better time to go for it than today.
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