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They Shot the Elephant
In a recent meeting with one of these couples, I was writing a bullet list of possible uses for their taxable investment account. As soon as I wrote the word "pre-60 retirement," they asked me to erase it. "We don't want to retire. We like to actually live our lives and have purpose."
What We're About, According to A.I.
I received an interesting e-mail from a friend/client yesterday. He was experimenting with A.I., and as part of his exploration, tasked the A.I. model to give a synopsis of my content.
Memory Hacking
Out of the blue, while at dinner, Finn piped up, "Thank you so much for today, Mom and Dad. Today was one of my favorite days ever." Wow! That was so sweet for him to say. If I'm being honest, yesterday didn't feel particularly special.
More to the Equation
There's more to the equation than money. I repeatedly watch people allow money to be the winning factor in the equation, only to feel guilt, regret, and resentment. More money isn't a bad thing, but it can be the worst thing if it comes at the expense of a meaningful life.
Losing Track
If I were to put a checkmark in the "con" category of pursuing work that matters, one might be this: Every day feels the same.
You Didn’t Put a Ring On It
All we have is the present. We can't go back and redo what's already happened, and we can't yet influence the future. Today is what we have to work with, so we might as well honor it by following our calling.
Downshifting
Most of the negative feedback revolved around the idea that some people who are retired still work, volunteer, be productive, and use their skills. If that's you, I applaud you. But I also have some bad news for you. You're not actually retired. See, I think culture has created a perverted definition of the word "retirement."
1/3 Through the Race
Today, I'm almost 44 years old. As I reflect on the past 20 years, I realize I'm about 1/3 through my career. So much has happened already, but I can't even fathom what's about to happen in the next 40 years of my career.
Symptoms vs. Afflictions
Perspective matters, and in the case of our work, we need to realize that our mindset and attitude impact our experience. If we're not actually living, there's no amount of job changes that will make us feel meaning in our work.
But Would You Live For Them?
"I would die for my family," exclaimed one of my friends. One by one, each of my friends said the same thing. As a husband and father, they would die for their family. Noble. I agreed with them about this sentiment. If push came to shove, I would sacrifice myself for my family. However, I asked a follow-up question. "Yeah, but would you live for your family?"
Feel a Way, Man
Then, I changed the subject: "Tell me about your work." His eyes instantly lit up, and a huge smile landed on his face as if there was an awakening inside him.
Mission and Memories…and One More Thing
"There are two things worth investing in. Mission and memories." I didn't realize it back then, but those words would rock my world from that point forward.
"I Think I'm a Flourless Cake"
This has led him to the point, like so many others, of glorifying retirement in the pursuit of far more sugar and much less flour.
(Not) Doing It For Free
The best work is the work we'd do for free if we could, but at the same time, we get to provide for our family while doing it. That's what it looks like to thread the needle of work that matters.
Sometimes, You Get Both
Let me be clear. This couple's mistake was not the fact they accepted a job that increased their family's income. The mistake was choosing money over meaning. When we prioritize money over meaning, we lose. Maybe not right away, but at some point.
Instant Regret
"I think I made a huge mistake." Not the text I expect at 1AM on a random weeknight. It was from a client.
Anatomy of a Midlife Crisis
First, I think the term midlife crisis is silly. I used to believe the hype, but I've come to understand something. "Midlife crises," if done well and for the right reasons, are anything but crises.
She Did It
Our culture says it's not possible. Our culture says we're all victims of bad timing and tough economic conditions. Our culture says a single-income life is unattainable....especially for young people. Yet, dedicated, disciplined, and sacrificial couples are doing it all the time.
The Flourless Cake
Perhaps this is an unpopular opinion that will be met with a violent backlash, but this seems like a flourless cake.